My husband is a good provider, he comes home straight from work, he loves to spend time with me. I am his world. In the first 3 years of our marriage though, I was miserable. I didn’t know what was happening, he treated me like a stupid child who’s naive and ignorant. I felt like I entered a marriage as a confident and strong person, but he wanted to change that because he felt the need to control me, he love the idea of a confident and strong wife but in reality, it scared him.